The most challenging part of living with herpes is telling a potential dating or sexual partner that you have herpes, so let’s start with some ways you can use to disclose your condition to a prospective partner.
1. Make use of STD advertisements on TV or YouTube as an opportunity to discuss or openly talk about sexually transmitted diseases and herpes. See an advertisement on STD testing? Make use of that to create an opening to have “the talk.”
2. You may probably come across some articles or true stories that you read about sex and STDs in newspaper, magazines or the internet. Share the article and see how your partner feels and response to it. If the response is positive, you can use that as an opportunity to bring up the subject of having herpes.
3. If you find it difficult to bring up the subject yourself, you can buy a book or print a pamphlet on herpes and ‘casually’ leave it in your car or coffee table. If you partner sees that, he or she will most likely ask you about it and why it is there. Once your partner has begin asking, use that opportunity to discuss about herpes and have “the talk.”
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