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Thursday, August 21, 2014

Surprising! MOST OF US HAVE HERPES?!

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Monday, August 18, 2014

Five Tips for Dating with Herpes

l There are Millions Just Like You: It’s time you start believing this statement. According to recent statistics, about 70 percent of the US population has Herpes Simplex Virus – 1 (typically called Oral Herpes) while another 20 percent is infected with Herpes Simplex Virus – 2 (typically called Genital Herpes). This means that you have a lot of people to interact with and learn about the disease.

l Talk to Your Partner: This is the major contributing factor to the demise of relationships. This is one of the most difficult parts of Herpes dating. However, if you respect the relationship, the talk, has to be had. Telling your partner about herpes after having sex is never a good thing.

l Encourage Your Partner to Get Tested: The majority of the US population has Herpes in some form. It is likely that your partner has it already. Encourage your partner to get tested even if he or she hasn’t shown symptoms of herpes.

l Follow Necessary Precautions: There is no cure for Herpes. Following precautions is the best thing you can do.

Avoid sex before and immediately after an active outbreak
Use condoms
Take herpes suppressants that can drastically reduce the risk of transmission.

l Change Your Attitude: Life doesn’t end with a herpes diagnosis and neither does your sex and social life. People with Herpes are finding their ideal match on Herpes dating sites – herpesfishes.com, It’s totally free! A stress-free relationship with someone who has herpes is possible, especially when you have it too. Be happy and try looking out for people with the same condition. If you have problems discussing your condition in the general dating pool, herpes dating sites offer a means to meet others without ever having to have that uncomfortable, stressful talk.

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Three Ways to Tell Your Partners You Have Herpes

The most challenging part of living with herpes is telling a potential dating or sexual partner that you have herpes, so let’s start with some ways you can use to disclose your condition to a prospective partner.

1. Make use of STD advertisements on TV or YouTube as an opportunity to discuss or openly talk about sexually transmitted diseases and herpes. See an advertisement on STD testing? Make use of that to create an opening to have “the talk.”

2. You may probably come across some articles or true stories that you read about sex and STDs in newspaper, magazines or the internet. Share the article and see how your partner feels and response to it. If the response is positive, you can use that as an opportunity to bring up the subject of having herpes.

3. If you find it difficult to bring up the subject yourself, you can buy a book or print a pamphlet on herpes and ‘casually’ leave it in your car or coffee table. If you partner sees that, he or she will most likely ask you about it and why it is there. Once your partner has begin asking, use that opportunity to discuss about herpes and have “the talk.”

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Wednesday, August 13, 2014

You Need to Know: 7 tips for Dating with Genital Herpes

1. You Are Not Your Disease

After herpes diagnosis, it may be difficult to think about anything other than the fact that you have a disease, but that’s all it is — a disease. It isn’t who you are. One of the toughest things to remember when dating with herpes is that mostly it’s just dating — an activity fraught with the potential for drama, pain, and heartbreak for pretty much everyone.

With few exceptions, people don’t date solely because they want to have sex. They date because they like each other and find each other interesting and attractive. When those other things are true, a herpes diagnosis often doesn’t seem like that big a deal. If you like someone enough, herpes can be just something you have to work with, like snoring or an affection for mornings.

2. You need to have “The Talk” with your Partner.

This is the BIG CHANGE you must make: you must get honest with your partner. This is one of the hardest parts of dating with herpes.Many of us got Herpes because a partner was not honest with us, the least we can do is to start doing the right thing and tell our partners.

3. Get Your partner tested.

Twenty percent (20%) of the adult population has genital herpes, and up to 80% have oral herpes (HSV-1).So there’s a good chance that your dating partner already has herpes. Especially if you have recently been diagnosed. I mean you had to get it from someone! Getting a Blood test for Herpes for your partner is easy and affordable.

4. You Can Reduce Risk of Transmission.

Once you have found a dating partner, you should take some basic precautions sexually.Here’s some things you can do to prevent transmission:

Avoid sex before, during, or immediately after outbreaks.

Use condoms.

Take Herpes suppressive medication.

Taking Valtrex or Acyclovir on a daily basis

5. Overcome the “Shame” Factor of Dating with Herpes.

Let’s face it, it is emotionally very challenging to get a Herpes diagnosis. It’s easy to want to give up on dating. But the sooner you can learn about this little virus, take the necessary health steps, the sooner you can start dating.It takes a bit of courage, to start dating again but millions do it. The sooner you get out there and start dating again, the easier you will make it upon yourself.

6. Do Everything You Can to Grow As a Person and Be Happy.

Remember your life is not over when you begin dating with herpes. It’s just a change. So keep growing as a person, do things to keep you happy, be social, be honest, and love yourself. That way you will be able to attract a beautiful partner or be a loving, wonderful partner.

7. Some People May Reject You, But The Right Person Won’t

The truth is, some people will reject you when they find out you have herpes. To quote a herpes support forum poster, “dating with herpes can be stressful.” However, if you talk about your diagnosis early, have information handy so that you can talk honestly about the actual risks and concerns of the disease, and are willing to do what you can to reduce the chance you will spread herpes to your partner, it’s not the end of the world.

I know numerous people with genital and oral herpes who are open about disclosing their condition and have active, happy dating and sexual lives. The truth is, it’s so hard to meet the right person that dating with herpes makes it only the tiniest bit harder. Life after herpes doesn’t mean life without love.

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